You've Been Everything to Everyone... Except You
You're the capable one. The one who gets on with it. Who holds it together, shows up, keeps going.
But somwhere along the way, you lost sight of the version of you who once felt real, the woman behind the roles.
If you've been asking yourself "Who am I really?" or wondering when you'll finally feel like yourself again... you're not alone. And you're not broken. You're just disconnected from your own power.
This is your space to start reconnecting, not to fix yourself, but to remember who you were before the world told you who to be.
Start Here with Your Free Guide
Feel Like You've Lost Touch with Yourself?
If you've been going through the motions, holding it all together on the outside but feeling flat, invisible, or quietly disconnected inside, this is for your.
"Where Did YOU Go?"
A Self-Reconnection Map for those who feel like they've lost themselves.
This guide isn't about fixing yourself. It's about remembering who you are, beneath the roles, the pressure, and the expections.
Inside you'll explore the truths about losing yourself and the subtle shifts that signal it's time for change.
The Happya Life Podcast with Clare Deacon
This is a space where we gently name what gets lost when you're busy being everything for everyone else, your voice, your wants, your sense of self.
Sometimes the questions isn't "What's wrong with me?"
It's "When did I stop feeling like myself?"
These episodes explore identity, authenticity, and what it means to reclaim your voice after years of blending in:
Episode 54: You're Allowed to Change: Letting Go of Old Versions of You
Episode 37: How to Stay True to Yourself in a World That Wants You to Conform
Episode 36: Who Are You Now? Reclaiming Your Identity After Trauma
Episode 35: Are You Wearing a Mask? The Cost of Hiding Your True Self
Episode 31: How to Trust Yourself Again (After Years of Doubt)
Courses & Programmes
If you're ready to feel more like you again, this is where we begin.
Whether you're drawn to gentle self-paced gudiance or more personalised support, these offerings are designed to help you reconnect with yourself, beyond the roles, expectations, and "shoulds".
Free Your Mind
Let go of old stories and finally feel enough.
You've lived by invisible rules, silenced your truth, and made yourself small to keep the peace. It's time to break that pattern.You'll learn how to spearate who you are from who you've had to be. Reclaim your worth without needing to prove it and show up authentically in small, sustainable ways. Explore Free Your Mind here.
Still Feeling Disconnected?
If the idea of reconnecting with yourself feels overwhelming or even indulgent, you're not doing it wrong. These patterns run deep. And healing doesn't happen all at once.
You might find more support through other Happya pathways too:
Explore Boundaries
Explore Emotions
Explore Wellbeing
Each one leads back to yourself.
You Don't Have to Earn Your Peace.
But you do get to start protecting it, with softness, with strength, and without apology.
No pressure. Just space held for you.
If you're tired of disappearing into the noise of everyone else's needs, and ready to come back to you, let's talk.
This isn't a pressure-filled sales call. It's a real conversation.
You'll have space to share what's been going on, feel truly heard, and get clear on whether working together feels like the right next step.
If it does, I'll show you how we can make that happen.
If it doesn't, you'll still leave with clarity.
More Tools to Support You, Wherever You Are
Not everything needs to happen all at once. If you're looking for a softer place to land, something gentle, practical, or simply different, these resources might be what you need right now.
Calm in Chaose: The Anxiety Relief Collection - £47
Simple, soothing tools to calm your nervous system and reset your peace, even in the middle of chaos.
Self-Care Toolkit for the Happya Entrepreneur - £47
Practical tools for those holding it all together as an entrepreneur.
Blooming Happya Journal Series - £9
26-weeks of science-backed journaling prompts to help you reflect, reset, and reconnect with yourself at your own pace.