You Keep Saying Yes BUT... You're

You're the one everyone turns to. The one who keeps it together.

You're always available, always picking up the slack.

But inside, you're exhausted and you're not even sure when things started to feel this way.

Maybe you've tried setting boundaries before, but it felt too hard.

Too much guilt. Too much resistance. Too much explaining.

So instead, you keep going, keep saying yes even when you're quietly screaming no inside.

If saying "no" feels selfish, or if you're constantly explaining yourself just to have space, you are not alone.

This isn't a flaw, it's survival mode. This isn't about willpower or being better at saying no.

It's about getting clear on what you need, what you want, and finally feeling safe enough to honour it.

At Happya®, I help you create boundaries that feel kind, clear, and safe, so you can start putting yourself first without fear or guilt.

Start Here with Your Free Guide

Why You Keep Saying Yes When You Mean No

Learn what's really going on, and take the first step towards boundaries that actually work for you.

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The Happya Life Podcast with Clare Deacon

Sometimes healing starts by hearing someone say what you've been feeling all along.

The Happya Life Podcast is where we gently unpack the things no one taught us: boundaries, burnout, people-pleasing, self-trust and how to grow through it all.

These episodes are a great place to start if you're not quite ready to talk, but you want to feel a bit less alone.

Episode 64: Are You Boundaried or Just Avoiding? How to Tell the Difference

Episode 58: Boundaries That Don't Backfire: Protecting Yourself With Heart

Episode 61: The Burnout You Didnt See Coming

Episode 33: Why You Feel Guilty for Being Happya (And How to Let That Go)

Episode 42: Setting Boundaries That Actually Work (Without Feeling Life a Bad Person)

Courses & Programmes

If you're ready to go deeper, these are for you.

Whether you want something self-paced or more hands-on, these offerings are designed to help you move beyond survival mode.

We focus on small, steady changes, not perfection, so you can build boundaries that feel good and actually last.

Boundaries without Burnout by Clare Deacon Happya Academy

Boundaries Without Burnout

A self-paced course to help you stop people-pleasing, find your voice, and protect your peace, one guilt-free step at a time.

If you're tired of feeling drained, stretched too thin, or like you're always putting yourself last, this course will walk you through how to set clear, kind boundaries that protect your peace and your energy. Sign up here.

Boundaries RESET

1:1 Coaching for when you're stuck in the loop of guilt, exhaustion, and over-giving. Boundaries RESET helps you clear the noise, get back to what you need, and build confidence in saying no: without shame, without burnout, and without losing yourself.

6-Sessions designed to help you stop surviving and start rebuilding, learn more about RESET here.

If you are ready for the Boundaries RESET, Book here.

Still Feeling Disconnected?

If boundaries feel impossible because you're overwhelmed, disconnected, or unsure who you even are anymore, you're not doing it wrong. Boundaries are just one piece of the puzzle.

You might find more support here:

You Don't Need to Earn Your Peace.

You just need to protect it: with love, with clarity, and with courage.

If you're done living for everyone else, if you're ready to reclaim your time, your energy, and your joy, let's talk.

No pressure. Just space held for you.

This chat is a space for real conversation, not sales scripts, not small talk.

You'll have the chance to share what's going on, feel heard, and get honest clarity on how I can support you.

If it's a fit, I'll walk you through the ways we can work together. If not, that's okay too.

More Tools to Support You, Wherever You Are

Not everything needs to happen all at once. If you're looking for a softer place to land, something gentle, practical, or simply different, these resources might be what you need right now.

Calm in Chaos Anxiety relief Collection

Calm in Chaose: The Anxiety Relief Collection - £47

Simple, soothing tools to calm your nervous system and reset your peace, even in the middle of chaos.

Explore Calm in Chaos

Self-Care Toolkit for the Happya Entrepreneu

Self-Care Toolkit for the Happya Entrepreneur - £47

Practical tools for those holding it all together as an entrepreneur.

Explore the Entrepreneur Toolkit.

Blooming Happya Journal Series

Blooming Happya Journal Series - £9

26-weeks of science-backed journaling prompts to help you reflect, reset, and reconnect with yourself at your own pace.

Start Journaling.

LET'S WORK TOGETHER

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